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Learning from it

When I was first starting school, I remembered how kids didn’t want to be my friend. I never did find out why though. They didn’t want to get near me. I remember, they would all hate picking me on their team when we had gym. Then, a new kid came in during the middle of the school year. I tried to befriend them, but then I found out the person wasn’t so kind. So, then that person started bullying me and everyone decided to join in and I started wishing that I was ignored again. Of course, I didn’t want to seem like a tattle-tale so I kept quiet. It was only when my dad found out though because I came home with a bruise on my arm from when a kid pushed me on the ground. I started to fight back. It was only then that the teachers got into the bully situation and called my parents. The problem though was they thought was the bully. My dad told the teacher everything, yet she told him to not cover for me because it was wrong to let your child bully others. I changed schools after that incident, I learned to embrace myself at a young age too. I also learned that I can’t just blend into the crowd when I see something wrong, I need to step in, even if it will hurt. That’s why to this day and further on, I won’t ever stand by and watch, because maybe, just even witnessing it, reminds me how alone I felt when I was getting bullied and no one felt the need to step in when they were right there.


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